Dear Zindagi - a contrary view

This post is written by one of my dear friends - Sandeep Ashtekar. It is a complete 180 degree view from what I had shared earlier. It also helps that he is studying psychology. He continues to educate us on the little nuances of life and how each one of us can deal with the same. Thanks my friend.


Hello Zindagi.....Movie is not about a girl getting into relationship with multiple guys and not wanting long term relationship.  It tries to beautifully  address the WHY part of such a problem, why are people afraid of commitment, why people jump from one short to another short term relationship, how does early childhood environment impact the children. This impact remains in their subconscious and impacts future life as adults. It's about how important it is to cleanse up the garage collected in mind so that new finds space in life. It's about forgiveness towards parents, accepting that all humans make mistakes including parents, they too are human. Finally as we take help for other health problems, it's time that people realise that there is a way to take care of mental health too and such issues can be resolved with proper therapy. Both actors have played role to perfection. It's about knowing self and loving yourself..... Yes not a typical Bollywood movie...
Good movie, do watch it.....

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